Archive for the 'Homophobia' Category

09
Dec

Huckabee defends desire to quarantine AIDS patients

Doing some from the hip damage control, Mike Huckabee defended the statements he made over 15 years ago that those with AIDS should be isolated away from the general public, as well as statements that homosexuality is a sinful and aberrant state (a belief he still maintains, by the way).  He also opposed increased federal spending in the fight against HIV/AIDS, calling for the Hollywood rich to empty their own coffers for that purpose instead. 

Huckabee stands by his earlier statements, claiming that at the time we did not know much about the transmission facts of HIV/AIDS — even though he made those statements after Magic Johnson went public with his HIV status and the CDC had made it elementarily clear that casual contact did not transmit the virus.  At that time the only viable reasons one would have for making such stupid comments was rampant homophobia, Southern Baptist theistic dogma and/or an unwillingness to heed educated and informed opinion.  Whatever combination of those “reasons” Huckabee holds onto they ring a little too much with the Bush bell for my tastes. 

26
Sep

I only stood and watched…

…but Cathy James was a warrior on the front lines. 

I came across this amazing first hand report of the “Family Impact Summit” (from the inside) and was overjoyed at the chutzpah and fortitude of Cathy James, who not only took on the anti-gay panel but whooped their debateless butts.  She spoke out for me and countless others with her words of clarity in the midst of the fog of bigotry. 

Cathy, you are my new hero. 

25
Sep

the elephant in the room — iranian style

“We don’t have homosexuals like in your country.  We don’t have that in our country.  In Iran we do not have this phenomenon.  I don’t know who has told you that we have it.” — Ahmadinejad at Columbia University

And the Holocaust is only a theory.

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14
Sep

needed — a show of strength against hillsborough ‘hate summit’

There is strength in numbers. Equality Florida, as well as other state and local glbt and progressive organizations, are asking for our help in promoting a strong protest to the ironically named “Family Impact Summit” in Brandon, FL on Sept. 20.   Read the full text of the email from Equality Florida after the jump.  And while you’re at it, follow the link and check out the sponsors.  Let’s get this information out and get our place on the protest front.  See you there?

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SAVE THE DATE: Sept. 20th, 3PM

Community Responds to Hate Summit

Equality Florida and the Hillsborough County GLBTA Democratic
Caucus, along with other progressive and faith based
organizations, are putting together a community response to a
“hate summit” being held in Brandon, Florida September 20th to
22nd.
Continue reading ‘needed — a show of strength against hillsborough ‘hate summit’’

11
Aug

Bob Allen — seen from across the pond

From Andrew Brown of the Guardian, “Republican politician Bob Allen seems to be taking advantage of the silly season in any number of ways.” 

(Thanks to Sunny at Smashed Frog for the link to this insightful and international review of our “local” news makers. )

 Of course we are well aware of the situation leading to the arrest of Bob Allen, the he said/he said of testimony about the restroom encounter, but Brown makes a very salient point: telling as the sex scandal aspect of this story is, even more telling is Allen’s behavior after the arrest.

What lifts the story above the common rut of scandal is his excuse, made in a taped statement later released by the police. It was beyond just stupid. There had been plenty of stupid leading up to it, starting with his supposed decision to proposition Officer Danny Kavanaugh in a public lavatory.

…But it was when he got back to the station and started to explain himself on tape that his stupidity ascended to really historic levels.

He had panicked, he explained to the police, because he suddenly realised he was the only white man in the park and feared he was “about to become a statistic”. So, naturally, he went up to the nearest large black man, who happened to be Officer Kavanaugh, and offered him money and sexual services. This is the excuse for which his name deserves to ring down the ages.

Strange creatures, we humans.  Stranger creatures still, we humans who find ourselves caught in the web of our own deceit.  Allen’s deceit seems, by all measures, to have begun long, long before he entered that park bathroom.  It has as much to do with lying to himself and his family as it does his lying to his constituents.  If he hadn’t turned bigotry into his defense, if he hadn’t demonized gay sex in the process, if he hadn’t previously been so eager to ingratiate himself to the “family vaues” crowd, he would be a pitiable figure.  As it stands he is a hateful one. 

01
Jul

Homophobia. It isn’t just for our enemies anymore.

Today I had an experience I haven’t had to deal with in quite some time.  My partner and I were out with a friend grabbing a bite to eat on the way to another friend’s wake. During the meal my partner described the partner of another of our friends as “Jane’s girlfriend.”  Now, I have a strong belief that gays and lesbians are “handicapped” in social discourse by having to qualify their life partners’ titles.  We are “girlfriends/boyfriends”.  We are partners.  Neither of those begin to fully convey the full and rich relationship that comes with a lifetime commitment as a spouse.  But the phrases “wife” and “husband” are not correct, either, because they imply a legal sanction where there is none.  We are linguistically in a no-mans-land when it comes to describing our relationships.  When a straight man introduces his spouse, he doesn’t have to search for a word that will let people know that this is his life partner and not his business partner, for example.  He simply says “this is my wife” and the fullness of the relationship is conveyed.

Now, here the weirdness begins.  I said these things to my friend (my partner already knows them, believe you me…).  He told me to keep my voice down!  He was embarrassed.  This straight “friend” was uncomfortable with the thought that I might be overheard talking about being gay and one of the small  realities of life as a gay couple.  Overheard by the guy in the next booth.  I was shocked.  First of all, his correcting the volume of my voice in a restaurant was a very paternalistic thing to do.  Secondly, how dare this man tell me to lower my voice when I’m talking about who I am!  Believe me…I let him know that I was pissed.  He went on to tell me that he ”didn’t want to get beat up” because I was talking about being gay!!!!  What a jerk.  Truly.  What a jerk. 

Just venting here.  Nothing to be done about the issue, but I’m shocked by the level of ignorance and irrationality in otherwise creative, successful and educated persons. 

I will not be quiet. Not about anything I deem important enough to speak about.  Damn the hypocrisy and the ignorance.  

Rant over.  






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